Everyone is pursuing the "American Dream". Ask any number of people and each answer will vary as to what defines the "American Dream", but lying at the root of each answer will be found an underlying theme of financial pursuits. All this striving for gain. The house, or should I say mansion, the ultimate job with six plus figures, the college education, the three plus cars and garages to house them...I could go on and on, but I will not bore you with this endless list.
Just as one dream is realized, another is discovered. The rules of engagement are shifting sand, they change constantly; there is no stability in these pursuits.
I could not help but chuckle within myself when I read the headline today, "East to West, Americans are feeling greater stress: Stress is up everywhere in the USA." I felt it was only a matter of time until people started feeling the impacting results of their outrageous pursuits in this American Dream. More truly it should be called the American Nightmare... "quick, someone, pinch me and wake me up! Make it go away!" But no, the status quo is to embrace it as part of success.
What makes this exclusive to America that they should call it the American Dream? Could it be that our nation is so young and prosperous that it thinks naively, that with all this gain there is no loss to one's peace of mind, to one's freedoms? In other nations I see these same things being pursued. Could it be the freedom we "supposedly" have, is to go after whatever we want? If this is the case, maybe the next lesson to be examined is what do we really, truly want?
If you let others determine this, qualify and quantify this for you, you also allow them to determine the price to achieve it. Let me rather be as Thoreau when he lived at Walden's Pond and was self sufficient, or Emerson as he described self reliance.
To me, this is a greater American Dream than trivial and temporal "stuff". Freedom to work in an occupation you choose for your own blessing-when you laugh, when you wake up excited to get started, for sheer joy rather than a paycheck to pay for all your acquisitions...this is a true dream! And it is very American, though sadly, America is becoming further and further removed from her true self.
Today, most of America is enslaved to their material possessions and all the while sacrificing a joyful and healthy life to keep their firm grip on these. Were we Egyptian Pharoahs, this would make sense; but in dying daily a slow death in order to some day attain a retirement of luxury is to live for tomorrow at the expense of today. (Read Matthew 6 and Luke 12:15-34.)
Who is to say you have tomorrow? You look and see you did not live today because you were too engrossed in your pursuit of the future that you neglected to embrace all the good that was given you as a gift in this very day. This is the day that the Lord hath made...we will rejoice and be glad in it.
Should this not rather be the American Dream: to live freely, worship freely, to be debtors to no man (not even our government), to speak freely. As the constitution states, "We hold these truths to be self evident, that all men are created equal, that they are endowed by their Creator with certain unalienable Rights, that among these are Life, Liberty, and the pursuit of Happiness."
Should this not rather be our dream? Not those things which enslave, but rather free us.
I see America is losing in her pursuit of happiness; most Americans are miserable or at least never content. As to having life, most do not embrace the day, but grasp at the whisp of air called tomorrow. They are not living, but merely biding time for when they will live in the future.
Liberty...liberty is being regulated more and more into the power of the government, then doled out again to its citizens from that which has been taxed. We pay to have our government mandate what we can and cannot do. Laws abound, zones determine what a man might build on the plot of land he payed for and which he may keep only if he pays his tax annually. Liberty is becoming less and less free, and only the wealthy can maintain it.
A man, they say, may change his lot in life, and to some extent this may be true, more in America than most other places in the world. Yet, I see a new oppression arising that would keep a man down who might desire to change his given station in life. A man is more and more regulated by our government as to what occupations he might choose, more stifled in his choices, as there is greater prerequisite set for how he is qualified to do a task.
Desire is not enough, even growing into a new occupation is becoming limited. No, today that man must have a degree from an accredited college or university, or at the very minimum certification that qualifies him to do the task at hand. Never mind that he has been studying and applying himself all his life as a hobby. No, that does not count.
Again, the hand of our government or society, our own citizens bearing down a heavy hand upon the man who is struggling to tread water in the sea of American opporunity.
Has America been fooled, deceived by this notion of a dream? Will its citizens awake and lay hold on liberty and truth - the greater dream that our founding Fathers saw, penned, and then to which they signed, in oath, their life's blood and worldly goods in order to lay hold upon?
Saturday, October 27, 2007
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I so enjoy reading your blog... do not think that because I rarely comment that I don't appreciate it, cuz I do. Time is the enemy of response to you and others as I'm off grid and not online at home. Keep posting and I'll keep reading... I have a feeling your blog will touch many lives and not just those who know you personally.
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Christine...... I really enjoy reading your BLog!!! Do you know you remind me of your Grandmother Ferrin in your writing style? PLEASE keep it up, soooooo refreshing!
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So, what is this? As soon as we tell you how wonderful it is to read your blog, you stop blogging? More more more! Love ya!
Happy Thanksgiving Sis, give thanks!
One of my favorite quotes fits the first half of your essay perfectly:
“It is easy in the world to live after the world’s opinion; it is easy in solitude to live after our own; but the great man is he who, in the midst of the crowd, keeps with perfect sweetness the independence of solitude.”
~Ralph Waldo Emerson (From his essay “Self-Reliance”)
It seems that much of what drives American people to require or expect “more” in their material possessions truly develops as a result of the opinion of neighbors, friends and relatives. This seems to transcend beyond mere greed and avarice, cuts across all socio-economic levels and is becoming the very fabric of American life.
The old cliché of “keeping up with the Joneses,” actually coined in the early 20th century, has insidiously crept into our culture to the point where it now seems that everyone is racing, not to keep up, but to win!
There is nothing wrong with enjoying the prosperity and freedom that Americans are so blessed with: but when being seen in the latest fashions and trends, or being the first to acquire the newest high-tech gadget becomes the fuel for your motivations, how much of life are you missing?
It is just my own humble opinion, but I say, “A lot!”
This segues into some of the concept in the second half of your essay: There are people, who realize the ultimate futility and emptiness that all of this scrambling for temporal achievement results in. They take a resistant stance, deciding that the scramble is not for them. Alas, they are then labeled retro-grouches and throwbacks to antiquated times.
More of my opinion? Those were simpler, healthier times.
Times when you could take the relevance of your life experience and apply it to a new career endeavor. Times when your worth was measured by your character, integrity and willingness to work hard, instead of by an institutionalized scrap of paper, the size of your house or the number of cars in your driveway.
There was a time when a vast majority of Americans achieved and overcame by the sweat of their brows and standing on the satisfaction of a hard job done well. That majority is shrinking and so is the gratitude for the many blessings that we do have.
America needs more retro-grouches! More people who find Thanksgiving Day the most wonderfully “American” of the holidays. More people who are willing to examine the worth of a person’s heart, not the bells and whistles of possessions. More people who will work hard, sweat and balance gain with giving.
Most of us live in increasingly urban areas, so a “pond” or a “meadow” of solitude, where one could literally escape and test the idea of self-reliance is almost impossible. Add to that the many responsibilities that each of us is committed to and the literal application of solitude often becomes impractical.
But, to be in the midst of the crowd, and keep that “perfect sweetness” that Emerson writes of, that independent spirit, knowing that the value of today outweighs the unknown of tomorrow, or the history of yesterday: does this not seem to be part of the foundation of the American dream that the Founders considered?
America is forgetting that liberty and freedom have nothing to do with material possessions, titles or status. The true victory of American Independence was won by fighting for ideals, beliefs and convictions, not for gain of territory or personal wealth.
May she once again return to that certainty and see that liberty begins from within, not from the outward? I don’t know, but I am glad to know that some of her people, even if only a minority, still recognize this fundamental truth. Perhaps this will act as a sort of leavening sometime soon!
Dear Frog,
In response to your comments (following):
There is nothing wrong with enjoying the prosperity and freedom that Americans are so blessed with: but when being seen in the latest fashions and trends, or being the first to acquire the newest high-tech gadget becomes the fuel for your motivations, how much of life are you missing?
It is just my own humble opinion, but I say, “A lot!”
I would like to add a realization that I have found to be true:
Genuine prosperity is measured by what a man can freely give - without hesitation. The more he can give without reservation the richer he truly is, what the scripture calls a cheerful (hilarious) giver. (It's something that is based more on the motive of heart than on the proportion, though a tithe (tenth)is a good starting point in acknowledging the source of his bountiful supply.)
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